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    How to Help a Friend after Divorce

    Linda M. Kurth,

    When a woman loses her husband after a divorce, many people feel at a loss as to how to help. ​A close friend or relative has recently been divorced and is trying to adjust to her new circumstances. You know she’s going through a lot. Typically, when a woman loses her husband because of his death, … Continued

  • You will always be treated as “The Problem.” – Divorce Minister

    David Derksen,

    When a cheater is done with their spouse, they will treat the spouse as “The Problem.” This is a dangerous time for the faithful spouse because this is when they experience the full contempt of the cheater. Sadly, many pastors and other counselors egg the cheater to say more contemptuous things about the faithful spouse … Continue reading "You will always be treated as “The Problem.”"

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    Will Divorce Make You Happy?

    Linda M. Kurth,

    2 CommentsI needed advice. My marriage of twenty-five years was in shambles. Years of counseling had not helped us fix our problems, so I made an appointment with the women’s pastor at my new church. ​“Your decision to stay or go should be based on what God wants you to do or not do. You should … Continued

  • No shame. Divorce is acceptable in dealing with marital, sexual immorality. – Divorce Minister

    David Derksen,

    “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” -Matthew 19:9, NIV I do not see a time limit set on these words. The exemption is there for anyone who has a spouse that engaged in sexually unfaithful behavior. That is what I see in … Continue reading "No shame. Divorce is acceptable in dealing with marital, sexual immorality."

  • A comment on social media – Divorce Minister

    David Derksen,

    “I should have divorced him long ago,” writes Cheater. I was scrolling through my feed the other day, and I came across a comment by an admitted Cheater. She was casting herself as the victim in the comment. The post by a ministry talking about people who stayed stuck in an abusive marriage. What I … Continue reading "A comment on social media"

  • Second marriage is better than first! – Divorce Minister

    David Derksen,

    The Lord blessed the latter part of Job’s life more than the former part. -Job 42:12a, NIV Christians are terrible as far as how they attempt to manipulate faithful spouses into staying married to unrepentant cheaters. I can think of several spiritually abusive moves that faithful spouses endure in various Christian communities who take a dim or … Continue reading "Second marriage is better than first!"

  • PSA: A partial truth is still a lie. – Divorce Minister

    David Derksen,

    Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” – Genesis 3:1, NIV Public Service Announcement (PSA): A partial truth is still a lie. Some of the greatest … Continue reading "PSA: A partial truth is still a lie."

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