Can Your Marriage Be Saved? (Yes! It Can Be!) - Melanie Redd
Let’s just face it.
Sometimes marriage is hard!
Relationships are challenging!
Although they go in with the best intentions, some people regret marriage after going through the process.
Marriage is never perfect and always comes with ups and downs.
But, is it possible to save a bad marriage?
Absolutely!
But, is it possible to save a bad marriage? Absolutely! Click To Tweet
Can Your Marriage Be Saved?
If you are contemplating a breakup, a separation, or a divorce, here are four words of hope for you and your marriage today.
First… Your Marriage Can Be Saved If You Will Seek to Rekindle What You Once Had.
Marriage can often reveal things about your relationship that make you regret going through with it in the first place.
However, those are problems that likely existed before you even got married. It’s never too late to address those issues to help you rekindle your relationship.
If you and your spouse are truly made for each other, then you need to accept that the ups and downs that the relationship comes with.
Not everything is going to be perfect, but you can improve how you deal with disagreements.
Transparency is key to a successful relationship and can help make your marriage better if you’re willing to put in the time and effort.
Not everything is going to be perfect, but what you can improve is how you deal with disagreements. Click To Tweet
Second… Don’t Be Afraid to Seek Professional Help.
A lot of people rely on their friends and family members for help when it comes to mending a marriage. And, these people can help.
However, it’s also a good idea to get an expert opinion.
You may want to consider marriage counseling if you feel that you’re having trouble with your relationship.
Marriage counseling usually gives you an impartial second opinion on your troubles and can be the best way to help you settle issues between you and your partner.
Counseling will require you to open up your relationship to a stranger which some people may find difficult to do.
However, if you put your faith in the counselor, they could offer you some solid advice to help mend your relationship with your partner.
Marriage counseling usually gives you an impartial second opinion on your troubles and can be the best way to help you settle issues between you and your partner. Click To Tweet
Third… Your Marriage Can Be Saved If You Remember That the Grass is Not Always Greener on the Other Side.
Perhaps you look at other couples and envy the relationship they have.
Maybe you long for the old days where your partner was more loving and felt closer.
While these are completely valid feelings, moving on to another partner might not make you as happy as you think.
Many people trick themselves into thinking that their problems can be solved if they leave their current partner.
However, those problems will likely follow you into your next relationship.
They won’t just disappear!
Finally… Your Marriage Can Be Saved if You Will Pray and Seek God’s Help.
Many couples have struggled and found help when they sought the Lord.
God loves marriage; He created it!
Why not ask Him to heal what is broken?
Invite Him to save your marriage!
God loves marriage; He created it! Why not ask Him to heal what is broken? Click To Tweet
“God, your God, will restore everything you lost; he’ll have compassion on you; he’ll come back and pick up the pieces from all the places where you were scattered.
No matter how far away you end up, God, your God, will get you out of there and bring you back to the land your ancestors once possessed. It will be yours again. He will give you a good life and make you more numerous than your ancestors.”
Deuteronomy 30:3-5, MSG
Also, here are a few more wonderful marriage articles that may help:
How to Fight For Your Marriage
How Your Background Improves Your Marriage
2 Powerful Questions to Improve Your Marriage
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