The Irresponsibility of Cain & Protecting Ourselves From Those Like Him
Cain’s First Mistake Was His Failure to Take Personal Responsibility Cain had submitted an offering to the Lord. So did his brother, Abel.
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Russelyn Williams
Russelyn Williams
Protect Yourself from Irresponsible People
Cain’s First Mistake Was His Failure to Take Personal Responsibility Cain had submitted an offering to the Lord. So did his brother, Abel.
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Does a Woman Have to Walk through Hell to Be Loved?
Spread the loveA consistent theme women see in movies and through shared experiences is a girl kissing many frogs to get to her prince. Or a woman walking through hell with one man being, “strong” until she finally gets to the light at the end of the tunnel where she experiences love. However, when it... Continue Reading →
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The Fruit of the Spirit & Wisdom in Interpersonal Relationships
What if we took a deeper look into what is going on and decided to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit in covering them with wisdom?
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If You Wait Until Marriage to Have Sex How Do You Know the Sex Will Be Good?
A common question that circles through singles' groups is, if you wait until marriage, how do you know the sex will be good? The answer is
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Signs you are Dealing with an Abuser
An abused person was a whole person before they met an abuser. However, the abuser seeks to make the whole person doubt his/herself
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The Importance of Sticking to Your Boundaries
This type of scenario points out the importance of knowing where we stand with our boundaries and simply sticking to them.
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How to Get Rid of a Scarcity Mindset
A scarcity mindset, however, seeks to rob us of God’s best. It is a precursor to unbelief. Essentially, it tells us that what we believe
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What Dating Down Looks Like
Dating down is when you know someone isn’t an appropriate fit for you—yet you continue to date them anyway.
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5 Green Flags to Look for When Seeking a Spouse
Both men and women need to practice discernment. Below are 5 green flags to look for when considering a spouse.
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Traits of Leaders Found in Jesus Christ
This is a characteristic of leadership. Often, the leaders are the first to get hit or to foresee danger. Leaders have a responsibility to
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5 Things We Can Learn About the Gospel from the Diddy Situation
This is what we see currently going on with Diddy. He got away from the Christian influences within his upbringing.
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God is the Covering for Single Women
God was covering me and the fears I was experiencing. He was letting me know I’d prevail through my worries too.
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Mya on Abstinence & Not Being Wifed-Up by Now
Mya interviewed with “Way Up with Angela Yee.” She shared how she’d been abstinent for 7 years. When asked what it did for her, she shared
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God’s Favor is Produced by What People Don’t Always See
Yielding ourselves to the wisdom of God out of fear for the Lord, meaning reverence for the Lord—is what produces that favor in our lives.
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The Importance of Facing Your Fears After a Trauma Experience
Trauma is a response to a traumatic experience that has occurred in our lives. We see in the Bible that a traumatic experience occurred
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How to Navigate Persecution from Believers
Following Christ will come with some persecution. I share this because I do not want anyone to turn away from walking with the Lord..
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Living Boldly in the Peculiarity of Extended Singleness
Boldness is a by-product of walking with God as a believer. When God leads us through peculiar situations—we end up having to walk out choice
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The Benefits of Friends Before Romance
Those who establish a genuine friendship first before entering a romantic relationship have gotten the most important things out of the way.
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How a Woman’s Need for Security Can Turn into Control Creating Disunity in Marriage
Showing that you trust that man to address your concerns will help that man to do what needs to be done more quickly than control.
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Communities Where Christian Singles Meet
Fly and Unmarried is a place where christian singles meet out of a church in Florida. I met the gentleman who co-leads this group through
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Christian Couple Who Met on Plenty of Fish
Christian couple, DJ and Lucretia of the “When Marriage & Purpose Collide Podcast,” chatted with me about how they came together.
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Avoiding the Sex Addiction Pit in Dating & Singleness
Sex addiction can be avoided through understanding this. “Passionate lust splits you from your heart, mind, values,
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Boundaries in Dating for Christian Singles
Boundaries in Dating, a book by Dr. Henry Cloud and John Townsend. In it, they point out some very important boundaries and wisdom for dating.
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Why the Bible Discourages Novices from Leading in the Church
Kanye was recently recorded saying he has a problem with Jesus because he prayed about some issues he’d experienced and Jesus did not show up
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The Brighter Side of Grief Has Joy
That’s a promise of joy and something different. I believe the brighter side of grief brings us into a more joyful place.
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Wife Hides $47,000 from Husband as An Escape Fund
a 34-year-old wife who hid $47,000 from her husband in what she calls an escape fund. The woman was advised by her mother to set aside money
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Women Are the Prize & Men Are the Heroes
messed it up for the chaste women. Therefore, overall, it's difficult for some to see women as the prize. Yet, women are the prize still.
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How to Pick a Spouse
How to Pick a Spouse is one of the most recent books I’ve read. It shares great insight on dating for marriage. The author, Dan Chun...
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Are You Leaning on Practicality More Than Trusting God?
pain of whatever we are being challenged with whether loneliness, anxiety, or disappointment, we have to be willing to continue trusting God
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Is He Into You or Just Using You?
Into you or using you? This is one of the most important questions we need to answer when newly dating someone.
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How the Lord Helps Us to Practice Abstinence Until Marriage
it is becoming more acceptable for those who either practice abstinence or who are virgins to share their journeys.
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Did You Know the Divorce Rate Isn’t 50%?
Divorce rate isn’t 50%. Shocking, huh? I know. This is information found in Shaunti Feldhahn and Tally Whitehead’s book, “The Good News About
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6 Steps to Aid Healing Through Grief
We all deal with things in life that leave us wounded whether it is grief due to the loss of a loved one, dealing with the ups and downs of
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Yvonne Orji Shows How to Boldly Represent Being a Virgin at Nearly 40
Yvonne Orji, in a recent interview on the Dear Chelsea podcast, doesn’t only cover being a virgin but she tackles some other topics like
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Rejection is Overcome by Self-Acceptance
Rejection is a common experience that we all will encounter in our search for love. We can protect ourselves from the pit of rejection by
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Generalizations, Unrealistic Expectations & Cheesecake Factory Date
Generalizations and stereotypes come from experiences like that of the recently famed Cheesecake Factory date. We see these stereotypes and
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Maintaining Hope in Difficulty
maintain hope in difficulty? How do we not lose our expectation of things changing for the better? We do so by keeping our faith in God’s
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Exhausting Grace: An Eye for An Eye
Eye for an eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek...
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Why Both Chris & Jessica We’re Wrong on Ready to Love
Season 8’s Ready to Love then you are well aware of the recent blow-up between Jessica and Chris. Chris seemed like a good guy
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When You Feel Dropped by the Lord
Have you ever gone through a season where you felt dropped by the Lord? If you have not you will. It’s only a part of life, especially for
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Flewed Out. When to allow or Reject?
Flewed Out. What does this term mean? It’s a trending term in dating. People who are seeking to date who live in different states fly out to
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Why the Community Suffers When Mature Fathers Are Silent
We need our men, in particularly our fathers. They are the ones who provide structure, identity, fear, and reverence for society—showing that
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Why Are Women Still Listening to Derrick Jackson?
Why Would Women Listen to Derrick Jackson After Hearing How He Treated His Wife?Dania Jackson came out last week sharing her side of what
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Positioning Yourself vs. Pursuing: What’s the Difference?
Positioning Yourself Vs. Pursuing: What’s the Difference?Lessons learned in extended singleness help us to become more settled in resting
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Singles, What is Your Response to the Holding Pattern of Singleness?
Singles that have been single for long periods can begin to wane tired and anxious from being in the holding pattern of singleness.
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Change the Narrative On How You View Singleness Over 40
I’ve gotten too Old and Missed My Chance as One Experiencing Singleness Over 40. It’s hard to get away from the narrative of age.
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Things the Church Got Wrong About Biblical Womanhood
Some unhealthy views about Biblical womanhood include the idea that being attractive is sinful or our duty as women is to fulfill the sexual
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Single & Over 40 & Unbothered!
I’m single, over 40, and unbothered. Why is that? Because I know who I am, I’ve found purpose in my experience, processed my pain, and remain
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Is Lack of Wisdom or Bad Advice Keeping You Single?
Is Lack of Wisdom or Bad Advice Keeping You Single? I’m somewhat privy to many conversations that take place in the world of singles as a
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If God is Good, Why Are Bad Things Happening?
Those who think logically may assume that those who say God is good are in a special category. Or, that they’ve only experienced good things
6 min readLessons to Note from Own’s “All The Single Ladies.”
Single Ladies, Sometimes, what we miss in our homes we seek to get within our relationships without doing the work to make sure the foundatio
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The Importance of Obedience for Singles Waiting on a Spouse
As believers in Christ, we should never take lightly obedience to God and his Word. It’s so important. We live within a culture that has
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5 Good Things about Being Down & Out
The thing about being down and out is it’s normal. It’s something that each human being has to experience. We may not share these details on social media, so when it happens people feel like it’s just them. But it’s not just you. Life happens to us all. It’s not the end. You may feel like you are just here. Just out there. The truth is you are not.
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God Wants Us to Remain Sober When in Pain
God wants us to remain sober when in pain. Be alert and of a sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for
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Must a Church Girl Drop it Like a Thotty to Be Loved?
Queen B just released a song that centers around an important conversation that needs to be had. It’s called, “Church Girl.” This song appear
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Getting Still in an Age of Hustle & Grind
What up Y’all! I know it’s been a while since I dropped a blog article. I’ve been practicing what I’m about to preach—getting still.
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Was Will Smith's Response to Chris Rock's Joke Protection of Black Women? - Intercession For A Generation Blog
There has been a lot of chatter about the whole Will Smith slapping Chris Rock all week at the Oscar. One consistent theme is viewing Will
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5 Tips I’ve Learned to Avoid Jezebels (Guest Post) - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Jezebels are women who depend on their looks to get a man of stature and manipulate him according to what she wants. In my years, I’ve…
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Ladies Always Resist a Relationship that Requires You to Relinquish Your Femineity - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Relinquish your femineity and relinquish the right to feel protected and becomes a protector. She relinquishes her right to feel
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How to Hold on to Jesus When Others are Letting Go - Intercession For A Generation Blog
I want to share some key points in how to hold on to Jesus when others are letting him go. We are in the world and not of the world. Thus, we
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Memorials of the Gospel of Jesus Christ in African American History - Intercession For A Generation Blog
God did this within African American history. Although, God did not ordain the sinful acts against African Americans; he worked
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6 Things That Need to Be in Place Before Christian Dating - Intercession For A Generation Blog
There are some things that should be in place before Christian dating. It’s interesting how many want to just jump into a relationship
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Overcoming Perfectionism Through Embracing Humility - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Perfectionists can be stressed out people because perfectionists often keep up appearances to be approve by others. They embrace the pride
5 min readThe Deceitfulness of Riches - Intercession For A Generation Blog
The Bible talks about the deceitfulness of riches and its ability to choke the Word of God out of us. At that point, the Word of God is no
6 min readProcessing Meagan Good Husband, Devon Franklin’s Divorce Filing - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Like many, I just got the news that Meagan Good Husband, Devon Franklin filed for divorce from Meagan Good. Of course, I am shocked as many
3 min read9 Characteristics of a Godly Man to Look for While Dating - Intercession For A Generation Blog
I share 9 characteristics of a godly man to look for while dating. As women, we must embody the characteristics we are looking for as well.
9 min readWhat Does Proverbs 18:22 Mean? - Intercession For A Generation Blog
What does Proverbs 18:22 really mean? This scripture has been drilled into women by religious leaders and teachers causing bondage
8 min readWhere Can Christian Single Women Find Single Christian Men to Date? - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Where Can Devout Christian Single women find Single Christian men of God to date? This is the question on every dating and relationship
7 min readDealing w/Those Who Project Their Issues Onto Us: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
This is how someone begins projecting onto someone—when someone projects their issues of how they feel onto you as if you are responsible for
5 min read3 Tests Singleness Present - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Singleness provides the temptation to prove our worthiness for love. We’re tempted to prove that there’s nothing wrong with us.
10 min readWhat It Looks Like for A Man of God to Wait on The Lord Pt. 2: Jeremiah Chase on Practicing Abstinence Until Marriage - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Jeremiah is the founder of Sex Can Wait a While. Sex Can Wait a While is a ministry that helps those practicing abstinence
17 min readWhat it Looks Like for A Man of God to Wait on the Lord Pt. 1: Recommitting to Abstinence Until Marriage - Intercession For A Generation Blog
This is a series intended to encourage the single man of God as well as the single woman of God. I want them to know they are not alone.
14 min readBlack Women: You are Worthy of Real Love - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Some Black women secretly ask themselves if they’re worthy of love. Many of us have gone back and forth with our ability to believe that genuine love…
7 min read5 Non-Negotiables Every Christian Single Should Have - Intercession For A Generation Blog
When considering non-negotiables, this one seems like a given, but it can be such a temptation to keep in practice when we really like someon
9 min readHow Much is Too Much When Dressing Modestly Plus Chic Me Review - Intercession For A Generation Blog
When wearing a new dress, we may ask ourselves how much is too much when dressing modestly and are we really honoring God with what we wear?
9 min readAffordable Travel & Shopping - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Anyone who knows me knows that I love to enjoy life and save money. Because of this love of mine, I’ve partnered with several affordable…
7 min readSingle Christian's Sexual Fears - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Some Christian’s sexual fears are no doubt challenging. These fears and anxieties have to be carefully navigated if one wants to be…
7 min readBetter to Marry Than to Burn? - Intercession For A Generation Blog
If you’ve been in church for any length of time you are familiar with the scripture that says it is better to marry than to burn.
6 min readTabitha Brown & Her Response to Wendy Williams - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Tabitha Brown, a social media influencer and trained actress was the center of one of Wendy William’s recent hot topics.
5 min readMyths Believed About Christian Singles - Intercession For A Generation Blog
This is such a dumb myth that I’ve found many Christian men believe. They feel like Christian women are under constant pursuit by godly men %
8 min readMoving in Silence While Dating - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Moving in silence while dating can be wisdom. This doesn’t mean blocking out your total community regarding the fact that you are dating…
4 min readHow Do I Start a Blog? - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Since I’ve begun blogging 8 years ago, I’ve always been asked the question: how do you start a blog? Starting a blog is easy.
9 min readHealthy Boundaries in Dating Show Us Who Genuinely Cares for Us - Intercession For A Generation Blog
One of the most important characteristics we need to develop to attract someone for us is our ability to set healthy boundaries that keep our personal identity intact
6 min readWhat Healthy Dating for Christian Singles Looks Like: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Many believers are afraid to date because they aren’t sure what healthy dating for Christian singles looks like. They’ve seen those who have abused dating t
8 min readSocial Media and Anxiety - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Some studies correlate the overuse of social media with increased levels of anxiety and depression. Social Media and depression have a correlation. Recently, I’d experienced increased sensitivity to my longing for a potential spouse after spending about two weeks on the new social media app Club-House. I’d been in some fun and interesting rooms that discussed relationships. A gentleman that I was interested in at one point had also been in a lot of those rooms and I think being in the same room made me feel a sense of connection that I desired with someone like him that I simply did not have. That in and of itself began to create an increased longing within me as well as anxiety.
4 min read5 Reasons Why Kevin Samuels Teachings are Dangerous for Women - Intercession For A Generation Blog
While we live in this world we are not to live as those of the world’s system. As believers, we operate according to a different system and that system is the
12 min read5 Ways to Refresh Your Intimate Relationship w/God - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Choose a different prayer time than normalSeeking the Lord at a different prayer hour than the norm is a way to break the monotony of your daily routine of seek
4 min readWhen Waiting for Sex Stay True to You & Your Convictions: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
I have to share this lesson that I’ve noticed when it comes to waiting to have sex. God’s honest truth is that we need to stay true to ourselves. There is s
5 min readLessons Girls Like Paige Can Learn from Married at First Sight - Intercession For A Generation Blog
It’s our responsibility as women to guard our hearts while getting to know a guy before going all-in:It’s our responsibility as women to guard our hearts wh
5 min readGood Girl Gone Bad... - Intercession For A Generation Blog
How does a good girl go bad? The main way a good girl goes bad is to allow unbelief to take root in her heart. This normally happens through focusing on the wro
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The Freedom of Wholeness Allows for the Vulnerability of Taking Risks - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Walking in wholeness allows certain freedom that allows us to be vulnerable and to take risks. It’s necessary to take a risk for those who desire to be in a G
4 min readTraveling on a Budget & Enjoying Your Life: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Traveling on a budget is the key to meeting your travel goals. You can do whatever you want as it relates to traveling and goals…
4 min readGuest Post: The Reality of Sexual Assault and What We Can Do About It - Intercession For A Generation Blog
“Assault survivors respond differently. There’s no right or wrong way to react after being sexually abused. The assault can be so overwhelming that we may res
6 min readMore Ways Singles Can Stay Connected During the Pandemic - Intercession For A Generation Blog
The Pandemic has opened the door to more online connections all across the world. Many singles have faced isolation in not being able to go out as much, but tha
4 min read4 Traits of a Confident Single Woman: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
She’s unapologetically herselfShe is unafraid of what others think of her. Thus, she isn’t willing to dim who she is to appease others. This honesty in embr
3 min readThe False Expectation of Marriage for Being a Good Girl: Thoughts on Erica Campbell’s Can’t Sow Seeds of Whoredom Statement - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Recently, Erica Campbell shared on her Instagram and also explained more in detail on a radio show her statement below. See the quote of what she said at her In
6 min readWe Cannot Be Fully Committed to Christ & The Republican or Democratic Party: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Woo! Chile’. Our country along with the body of Christ has been through a rough election season. There has been much tension and discourse in the body of Christ
5 min readIrresponsible Leadership Creates an Occasion to Blaspheme Christ - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Thankfully, our country is moving out of an era where an occasion to blaspheme Christ has been given to the American public, onlookers from other countries, and
5 min readOvercoming the Fear of Man: - Intercession For A Generation Blog
Last week we discussed the fear of man. We discussed the fear of man operating in religious people who seek to confine others to their understandings, personal
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