• Destruction of mental, physical, spiritual and all-around well-being.
• The chance of being his beard: he is on the downlow; is sexually involved with men secretly. But his lady is his cover so that he can appear to be conventional.
• Possibly having children with him and the children suffering through chaos, dysfunction and eventual separation or divorce.
• It’s likely he will cheat, potentially exposing his lady to diseases and infections, betraying her in one of the most severe ways.
• As a woman, feeling lonely still, because Mr. Wrong is emotionally unavailable because of bad social conditioning and failure to heal.
• Burnout. His lady has burnout because he stresses her out so much in general.
• Marriage leading to divorce.
• Becoming a pornography widow. There are women whose husbands choose porn over them.
• Spiritual, emotional, physical and other types of abuse.
• Being abandoned, left as single mother, broken-hearted.
There are more problems that can arise from being with the wrong person that I did not mention here.
I listed some of the most common problems that I see. This post is a reminder friends, to wait patiently on the Lord. To pray, be discerning and intentional about having a healthy relationship and marriage. God is a great guide and protector!
Helpful Bible Verses:
This also comes from the Lord of hosts,
Who is wonderful in counsel and excellent in guidance. Isaiah 28: 29
I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go;
I will guide you with My eye. Psalms 32: 8
