Are you falling in love with the right guy?

Are you falling in love with the right guy?

Posted on February 20, 2009 Updated on February 19, 2009

Proverbs 10:22

Love at its apex is when you have seen the worst in a person and have not forsaken him. This is the love that your heavenly father has for you. Why do I want you to know .this? Because I don’t want you to be one of the foolish women who run from the only answer there is to the question of life. You need never run from Him. He made up his mind about you before the words were framed

This is not the love that you are to seek from men. You will never find a man like Jesus, the Lover of your soul. This love is the love that God gives to compensate the thirsting heart that has drunk from the waters of men’s empty promises. It is the cool, refreshing knowledge of a love that calms your desperate cravings and clinging. You may grope and fight you have the touch of men whose arms can ease no pain. But you don’t have to for I speak too you of the only one whose kiss can curse pain and ease fear.

Do not join the masses of woman who are chasing after affections of some fictional lover whose shiny armor is a mere fantasy that will never be humanly realized. Don’t become bitter as you rummage through relationship, looking for divine love from human hearts.

 Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that there is, somewhere beneath the sun’s bright light a hero who isn’t tarnished with human flaws. If you are to love a man, under stand that he is a man, you will never be disappointed by what you don’t expect.

In short, whatever you need, natural or spiritual, God is the source from which your blessing must come. You will not look to men. Blessing may come through men, b but not from them. All of your help will come from the Lord. He will use people from time to time. But your deepest needs will fill Himself. He alone can give the soul release. Man sets bones, but God causes them to knit together. Man gives love, but God fills voids. Whatever the arena, remembers to include Him

Redeem your treasures through His word. If they are not from His word, they are not from Him. You want only the answer that comes from Him. Patience is going to be the real challenges. It is difficult to learn to wait. When you feel that you need something today and God doesn’t answer readily, you must learn to trust Him and wait. Anything you provide yourself will only increase the struggle. Wait on His blessings and His timing and you will have the kind of blessings that add no sorrow.

 Sources: Bishop T.D.Jakes