The Wedding and Forevermore - Jewell Utt
A beautiful day, a radiant bride, a happy son, a perfect location. Thus begins the story of happily ever after. Yet, Forevermore doesn’t just happen. It comes through hard work, patience, maturity, and a deep desire to know the other person intimately. It is essentially a choice. A choice we are ecstatic to make in the beginning, because we are crazy in love.
As time passes we become acquainted with our partner’s faults, they have now invaded our perfect world. The trick is to prevent resentment from building and allow love to abound instead. How? By remaining aware of our own imperfections, and seeing our partner’s differences as an asset. We can develop our relationship by respecting their distinct insight. They offer a perspective we cannot. By studying the differences we can become more effective.
The Bible says, ” Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor.” Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NASB)
There’s always a bigger picture to consider. One that reaches far beyond our personal desires. When we remain focused on it, we can make a greater impact in life, in marriage, and in our relationship to others.
We are the Bride of Christ. A connection that thrives on time and care. By reading scripture we learn His voice, through prayer we share our heart. It develops the faith, trust, and love we need to stay the course. The pursuit of intimacy keeps a relationship fresh and strong. There are many mysteries to learn and enjoy. Use the blessings of difference to influence the greater good. We are more effective working in tandem.
Forevermore surpasses earthly marriage. As the Bride of Christ, eternity plays on our big screen.
So “Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.” Colossians 3:2
