I wonder how many of us endured lectures from (ex) in-laws who thought they knew how to “fix” things by assigning blame to us. Lack of humility did not skip a generation.

Maybe they felt emboldened to tell us how we were not measuring up to being “a man?”

Maybe they felt emboldened to comment on how we were failing in the bedroom?

Maybe they felt like they needed to tell us how to demonstrate better love to their son or daughter while their child was still cheating?

If they had any shame, they would be too ashamed to say anything to their child’s infidelity abuse victim. They would be too mortified thinking about their child’s sin to even think of offering “correction.”

One of the best gifts of divorce is no longer having to deal with such arrogant people. Sadly, some people are too much of fool to keep their mouths shut. Thankfully, you do not have to stay to listen anymore.