Best ways how to make your Father's Day extra special

Father's Day is widely celebrated all over the world.

Barack Obama, the 44th President of the United States, is known as an example of a great father in modern times. Despite his demanding role, he prioritized spending time with his two daughters, Malia and Sasha, and actively participated in their lives.

Obama emphasized the importance of family and created a healthy work-life balance. He instilled values, supported their interests, and encouraged their personal growth. Obama exemplified the qualities of a great father through his love, dedication, and involvement.

What is Father's Day?

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Father's Day is a meaningful celebration that pays tribute to every father and fatherly figure present in our lives.

It includes grandfathers, stepfathers, and foster fathers or guardians. It gives recognition where it is due- emphasizing how vital fatherhood remains in society today.

Although specific dates vary with location, it occurs annually every third Sunday in June for many countries worldwide. 

The 5 Biblical roles of a father

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Here are the five biblical roles of a father, along with verses: 

Leader and guide

"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." - Ephesians 6:4

As fathers striving to fulfill our divine calling, it is paramount that we provide unwavering leadership and mentorship for our children.

We must remain steadfast in upholding the teachings and values bestowed upon us by our Heavenly Father while offering constructive discipline when necessary and genuine instruction rooted in wisdom and compassionate guidance to nurture their inner spirituality and moral fortitude.

Provider

"But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." - 1 Timothy 5:8

Every father has a binding obligation to fulfilling the diverse material needs of his family members. This notion includes providing financial support, ensuring access to necessities, and exemplifying an unwavering dedication to bolster their physical and emotional wellness.

Protector

"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate." - Psalm 127:3-5

In fulfilling our role as fathers, protecting our family from physical and spiritual threats is among our most crucial responsibilities. Building a fortress around one's loved ones - shielding them from potential harm and ensuring they feel secure at all times- constitutes an integral part of this process.

Additionally, equipping family members with the skills necessary to navigate life will enable each individual within it to emerge stronger.

We are called to protect our families both from physical and spiritual harm. We should also shield our loved ones from danger, provide a sense of security, and equip them to face the trials and challenges of life.

Teacher of God's Word

"And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise." - Deuteronomy 6:6-7

Fathers are crucial in instructing their children to learn God's Word and His ways. We are called to share, teach, share, and exemplify the principles and truths of the Scriptures. We must ensure that faith and trust in God are central to the lives of our families.

Role model and disciplinarian

"My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline or be weary of his reproof, for the Lord reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights." - Proverbs 3:11-12

Fathers are to be role models, demonstrating godly character, integrity, and righteousness. They are responsible for disciplining their children in love, correction, and guidance, just as God disciplines those He loves. 

10 best ways how to make your Father's Day extra special

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Making Father's Day extra special is a beautiful way to show appreciation and love for your father. Here are 10 ideas to make the day memorable:

1. Plan a surprise outing

Arrange a surprise outing or activity your father enjoys, such as hiking, fishing, or visiting his favorite museum. Spend quality time together doing something he loves.

2. Cook his favorite meal

Prepare a delicious home-cooked meal featuring your dad's favorite dishes. Put effort into creating a special menu and serving it with love. You can even bake a Father's Day cake or dessert to add to the celebration.

3. Write a heartfelt letter

Express your love and gratitude for your dad by writing a sincere letter. Please share your favorite memories, what you admire about him, and how he has positively influenced your life. This personal touch will mean a lot to him.

4. Create a photo collage

Gather old photographs and create a meaningful photo collage or album highlighting your shared precious moments. You can also include handwritten captions or notes beside each photo to add a personal touch.

5. Plan a family game night

Organize a fun-filled game night for the entire family. Play board games, card games, or video games your dad enjoys. This activity will create lasting memories and foster a sense of togetherness.

6. DIY Father's Day gifts

Put your creativity to work and make a thoughtful DIY gift for your dad. It could be a handcrafted photo frame, a customized keychain, or a personalized coffee mug. The effort and personal touch will make the gift extra special.

7. Create a "Best Dad" Award

Design and create a unique award or certificate for your dad, declaring him the "Best Dad in the World." You can include reasons why he deserves this title and present it to him during a family gathering.

8. Plan a movie night

Set up a cozy movie night at home with your dad's favorite snacks and drinks. Select a few of his favorite movies or choose a new release he's been looking forward to. Enjoy the films together and have a relaxed evening.

9. Outdoor BBQ or picnic

If your dad enjoys the outdoors, organize a BBQ or picnic in a park or backyard. Prepare his favorite grilled foods, pack a basket with tasty treats, and spend the day together, enjoying good food and quality time.

10. Pamper him

Treat your dad to a day of relaxation and pampering. Arrange a spa day where he can indulge in a massage, facial, or any other treatment he would enjoy. Alternatively, create a spa-like atmosphere at home and give him a soothing massage.

Emulating Abraham: the Father of All Nations

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We all know Abraham and Isaac in the Bible. The faith story of Abraham, found in Genesis 22:1-19, is a test of His faith and obedience to God.

God commands Abraham to sacrifice his beloved son Isaac as a burnt offering, despite previous promises to bless Isaac and make him the father of a great nation. Abraham obediently sets out to fulfill God's command, and just as he is about to sacrifice Isaac, an angel intervenes and provides a ram as a substitute.

This story showcases Abraham's unwavering faith and willingness to trust in God, even when faced with a seemingly contradictory situation. It also serves as a foreshadowing of Jesus Christ, who would later be sacrificed for the salvation of humanity.

Abraham serves as a great example of fatherhood in the Bible. His unwavering faith, obedience to God, hospitality, prayerfulness, and commitment to passing on godly values are qualities that fathers can emulate today.

By trusting in God, following His commands, showing kindness to others, praying for their families, and teaching their children about God's ways, fathers can strive to be great fathers and positively impact their families.

We are not perfect children. Remember, the key to making Father's Day special is to show your love, thoughtfulness, and appreciation. Tailor your plans to your dad's preferences and interests, and most importantly, spend quality time together.

We are also not perfect fathers, and pursuing an ideal family is an illusion. Our fallen humanity and sin make us all imperfect humans and fathers. But when we walk with Christ and dwell on His Words, we attain righteousness in our ways as an earthly father and son and exemplify His will in our lives.

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