Did not really get angry with her - Divorce Minister

²⁶Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:

-Ephesians 4:26, KJV

It was mostly directed at individuals involved conspiring with her against me. These were individuals who claimed to be Christian while getting involved in destroying my marriage.

At the time, I could not think straight–especially with one–because of how angry I was with him.

That said, I did not sin in my anger against this individual. I was just unable to process my emotions at the time as it was so intense.

When I think of the forgiveness process, I think of how I had to give this individual up to God again and again. Eventually, my anger subsided, and I was able to see the why to my anger towards him. God healed my heart as I gave Him my burdens and my anger.

For some, this process of freeing ourselves from righteous anger is mostly one we have to walk through regarding our Cheater. But for me, it was primarily regarding someone else who was involved.

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