God, I am tired of doing good

Was there a time when you talked to God and admitted you were tired of doing good to others? 

Would God get mad if we tell Him doing His will of being a good person is exhausting? This may be because, aside from treating others right, we still need to overcome our struggles in life. 

Galatians 6:9-10 says, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time, we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have the opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially those who belong to the family of believers.” 

There is a reward if we do not give up doing good, especially to those who belong to the family of God. 

What if before we receive the reward, we are already drained from giving and sacrificing to others?

Are you feeling overwhelmed

Are there too many responsibilities for us as Christ's followers?

Apostle Paul encouraged believers in Galatia because he felt they were overwhelmed with the responsibilities of the Christian life. He urged and warned them of the things they should avoid.

We all grow weary of doing good because “The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.” (Mark 14:38). The weaknesses of our bodies are natural since that is the outcome of disobedience. 

If we allow our weaknesses to overpower the will of the spirit, then we will get tired of doing what is good.

As Believers, we often feel there are so many tasks to be done, and we could not possibly follow everything. We have so many needs to work for so we can live. 

It would take our time, energy, and finances. For instance, a working mom needs to deal with the needs of her home-her children, husband, and household chores. Then, she still needs to meet her deadline at work. 

Her exhaustion could lead her to frustration and irritation because it seems like she has a never-ending job at home and in the office. Then, she is still expected to remain calm and do what is good.

Moreover, the more we try to do good, the less appreciation we receive from those we treat nicely. These things could easily break our hearts and quickly become exhausted.

Doing what is right and good in God’s eyes is difficult in a fallen world. If it seems no one appreciates, there is little compensation for all our sacrifices. 

Is it worth doing good

In Galatians 6:9, Apostle Paul noted that those who do not give up will reap a harvest. He firmly believes doing good and not being tired of doing it is worth it. He thinks his sacrifices are worth the prize. Why?

In 1 Corinthians 15:58, he urged the people to stand firm and let nothing move them. He added that they should always give themselves entirely to the work of the Lord because their labor is Him is not in vain. 

God appreciates you for doing good for people and always choosing what is right. God’s validation is far more important than what others think of you.

What is the prize of doing good?

Those who keep God’s commandments and pursue righteousness will gain God’s favor. 

Deuteronomy 6:18 says, “Do what is right and good in the LORD’s sight so that it may go well with you and you may go in and take over the good land the LORD promised on oath to your ancestors.”

Moses talked to the Israelites before they arrived in the promised land the Lord gave them. 

When we do what is right and good in the eyes of the Lord, we will have a peaceful life as we live in God’s promises.

Keeping God’s commandments helps us to avoid danger and lead us to prosperity and long life.

What do I need to do when tired?

Growing tired of doing good is an ever-present danger in our Christian living. But God understands us, so we should not be afraid to cry out to Him so He can change our hearts.

Here are some possible ways to do this when you are drained from doing all the good work.

Take a rest

There is nothing wrong when you take a rest. Even Jesus Christ has a schedule of rest time. 

In Mark 6:6-13 Jesus sent out his 12 disciples and gave them the authority to over impure spirits. He instructed them to take nothing on their journey, including bread, a bag, and money. 

They only wore their sandals and no extra shirt. 

So, they went out and preached that people should repent. Also, they drove out many demons, anointed sick people with oil, and healed them.

Then, in Mark 6:3-32, the apostles gathered around Jesus and reported all they had done and taught to him. They did not have the chance to eat, so Jesus said, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.”

Afterward, they went by themselves in a boat to a solitary. 

Jesus Christ knew that we grow weary and tired after doing all the good works, and He encouraged us to go to a quiet place to rest. 

The good thing about it is that you can relax with Him. God is still with you even if you are tired.

Do it for God, not for people

You may be feeling tired because you are pleasing others. Regardless of whether you are doing what is right, some people will never be contented.

The more you do good for people, the more you get tired. It would lead you to stress and depression because you keep doing it for them. 

People may or may not appreciate what you do. Some may even take it against you when you do what is right. 

Apostle Paul emphasized in 1 Thessalonians 2:4 that we speak as those approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. He noted that we are not trying to please people but God, who examines our hearts.

Besides, if you do good for people, the drawback is for you rather than them. You would be the one who will get tired, and they do not care.

Thus, focus and fix your eyes on Jesus, for your hard work and perseverance in doing good will be rewarded in His perfect time.

Do not overcommit

We often experience burnout when we try to get involved with so many things that we think we can handle everything. 

Moreover, overcommitting ourselves is the leading cause of getting tired of doing good. We want to contribute and respond to God’s love so much that we get involved in many ministries or church activities. 

God appreciates your heart and willingness to become a part of His works here on earth. 

However, we have to discern if we can handle everything or not.

 It is not how much ministry or good work you are committed to. It is about how willing you are to follow God.

Thus, your willingness to pursue righteousness is what matters to God. He does not want you to overdo everything since He knows you will grow weary. 

God wants you to enjoy doing good and right, not to feel burdened when you get tired.