How to make your marriage succesful
Marriage is a great institution that has criss-crossed nations, tribes, academic and socio-cultural goals and affiliations. Not too many married couples are finding marriage pleasant. A brother was planning for his wedding sometime ago and he went to tell some of his customers who were directors of an engineering company. They told him they were getting fed up of their experience with marriage and were looking for a way out, while he was taking steps into it.
Several homes have broken with the highest divorce figures coming from the West. Many couples are living in hell. Infact, if you want to describe the torments of hell, just say the situation in hell is comparable, though far worse than what obtains in their homes. And they will get the message. Yet originally, God designed the family to be an extension of Heaven. It is my prayer that whatever your family has lost or is missing which should give you Heaven on earth will be divinely supplied.
In this passage, although Adam was asleep when God was working on Eve, he however made certain inputs. He contributed a rib. As a searching single, you have to make a sacrificial contribution for your Eve to come out. The size of your contribution will determine how your finished product – your wife will be.
That contribution could be in the area of prayer, fasting, sowing seeds into the type of home or partner you want. It could also be to what extent you have prepared. Sister, if you want a good home, are you prepared to be a good wife? As married couples, you will need to make sacrificial contributions in order to have your desired home.
Turning a house into a home is the responsibility of both partners. Proverbs 14:1 says the woman who sees herself as a builder and commits herself to building her home is wise. If you build your home, you will enjoy it. If you pull it down, you will regret it. Are you building or pulling down your home? Moving house into home is a process. It takes time. Give it what it takes.
