A telltale sign of cheating is a new found focus on one’s appearance. This might manifest via going on a diet, increased exercise routine, or changing hair colors and style.

In and of itself, this does not equate to cheating. However, the motive behind these changes is worth considering.

I emphasize that this is a new focus as some people genuinely might be making changes to be healthier in their marriage. Nothing is wrong with that. It’s the sudden focus on these things that now raises my suspicions.

Cheaters might be doing these things to make themselves attractive to more partners. They are shedding their married identity, which is obviously disastrous to that marriage.

I suspect many Cheaters are confused who do this. They simply do not know who they are.

These individuals never felt free to find themselves as teenagers; so, they are doing this “rebellion” late in life and making their spouse pay for it–emotionally and sometimes fiscally, too. That’s just my lay theory on the matter. It seems to fit with Cheater’s level of maturity, though.

So, if your spouse is suddenly all into their looks, watch out! It may be a sign of other things–like cheating–that are hidden.