Anniversary Reflection — Grateful, yet Grieving
How can you not remember the day you were married? It’s not possible.
Kate Bowler says, “Grief is the long form of love.” June 20 was my 42nd anniversary. I chose to remember the day. Next to the birth of my two children, it was the most significant day in my life. As I considered the date in light of his death, I wrote a reflection to my husband that I’d like to share with you.
You left the party abruptly, missing what was to come.
I wanted more time together. I wasn’t ready to be done.
The memories we made collided in a wave when you left.
Scattered and tossed, as I tried to make some sense.
In recollection, I’m grateful for the days and years we were granted.
Our vows were honored, lived out, and planted.
In saying “I do” and now knowing “I did”,
We kept the promise, “til death do us part”.
My love continues for you, with my last breath.
In the ache of your absence, I’ve found God’s presence
to fill me to the depth.
