Dark side of child fame - Christian Personal Development

Dark side of child fame is a guest post by Abigael Ogunotade. I want you to read this exciting article to see the other side of success and breakthroughs especially if God is not allowed to be in control.

Introduction to the dark side of child fame

I have been researching the dark side of child fame, and it has been both interesting and surprising to discover that child fame, often perceived as a blessing, may not be all it seems.

What is the dark side of child fame?

Child fame, when it first happens, may seem like the ultimate jackpot. However, relative darkness lies on its dark side. Beneath the glamour, fame, and recognition lies a more ominous reality. The dark side of child stardom can be considered the potential damage that can result from children working in the entertainment industry at a young age.

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Dark side of child stardom

Child stardom is not always the pot of gold it appears to be; in fact, it is filled with dangerous pitfalls that pose harm to a child’s mental, physical, emotional, and even spiritual well-being. Here are some situations experienced in the dark side of child fame:

1. Pressure: Child stars are often faced with pressure from parents, managers, and other people to perform and sometimes beyond their limits.

2. Stress: They are overwhelmed by stress, and their parents, directors, and managers pressure them to keep going, leading to mental stress.

3. Exploitation: These children could be exploited by the people close to them, be it their parents, managers, guardians, etc. This led to the Coogan Law, generated from the story of a boy who sued his parents for misappropriating his earnings. Exploitation can leave life-lasting effects, both financially, morally, and mentally, on a child.

4. Low self-esteem: It’s possible for a child admired by millions to develop low self-esteem. These miniature adults, when told what to do, what not to do, when to do it, how to act in public, and how to be perfect, develop low self-esteem and encourage thoughts like, “Nobody will ever take me for who I really am. My real self is a disaster.”

5. Anxiety: They are always burdened with thoughts that someone will criticize them or they will lose their childish appeal.

6. Criticism: This is one of the major situations experienced in the dark side of early stardom. People are naturally inclined to criticism, especially if the person is a popular figure, not excluding child stars. In the midst of this, they forget that these upcoming adolescents are not old souls in a small body but normal children still in the stage of mind development.

This affects the mental and emotional being of the child. Criticism can even affect adults. Note: Child stars can be criticized by anyone, even their peers and colleagues.

7. Spiritual
abandonment: This is where pride comes in, and they feel everything they are is all by themselves, and they forget God. Due to the constant emphasis on success, fans, and their parents’ “make-money thingy,” they forget God and run more after fame and money, forgetting Matthew 6:33.

Child stars and the dark side of early fame

1. Mara Wilson (Matilda) – She has struggled to maintain a perfect image and is constantly under anxiety and depression.

2. Todd Bridges (Diff’rent Strokes) – He dealt with drug addiction and suffered physical and emotional abuse from his father/manager.

3. Henry Thomas (E.T) – He felt isolated and disconnected from family and friends and had difficulty transitioning to adult roles.

Solution to the dark side of child fame

Child stardom can’t be considered all negative since Jesus himself was a child prodigy. Imagine a 12-year-old boy sitting among professors, telling them what was higher than their level of education; that would be wow! As parents, managers, and directors, to deal with the dark side of child popularity, we must:

1. Nurture their faith – We must nurture their faith and help them develop a strong relationship with God.

2. Foster humility in them – We must incorporate humility into them. We have to make it clear to them that their talents are gifts from God, so they will always be able to return the glory to God.

3. Teach them that true dignity comes from serving God, not from earthly success or fame.

4. Ensure their value to God is seen, not just their talent and marketability skills.

5. Seek God’s wisdom concerning His plan for them and totally trust Him.

6. Regulation and enforcement laws – Child actors should be protected by law from exploitation, ensuring fair pay and regulating working hours.

7. Parental guidance and support – Parents must be encouraged to prioritize their child’s well-being, education, and mental health over fame and fortune.

8. Professional support systems – We must provide access to therapists and support groups for child stars to address mental health concerns.

9. Industry accountability – We must hold the entertainment industry accountable for exploitation or mistreatment of child stars.

By addressing these issues, we can work towards creating a safer, more supportive environment for child stars and reducing the risks associated with early fame.