The God Who Loves
John 3:16 may be the most familiar verse in all of Scripture—but it is surely one of the most abused, and least understood. The verse is so well known that some Christians seem to think giving the reference alone constitutes a sufficient proclamation of the gospel. For years, someone in a multicolored clown wig could be seen at practically every major sporting event holding a sign saying “John 3:16,” strategically positioned in view of television cameras. There’s no evidence those stunts ever really did anything to advance the gospel. Though they did seem to popularize John 3:16 as a favorite cheer for people who presume on God’s love while never truly loving Him in return.
Arminians extract the phrase “God so loved the world” from its context and use it as an argument for universal atonement. More extreme universalists push the same argument even further. They claim the verse proves that God loves everyone exactly the same and that He is infinitely merciful—as if John 3:16 negated all the biblical warnings of condemnation for the wicked.
To think like that is to miss the point completely. The immediate context (John 3:18) gives the necessary balance: “He who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.” Surely that is a truth that needs to be proclaimed to our generation with at least as much passion and urgency as the message of God’s love and mercy.
Furthermore, John 3:16 says nothing specific about the extent of the atonement; it is a statement about the magnitude of God’s love. Here is a profound wonder: God loved “the world”—this wicked realm of fallen humanity—so much that He sacrificed His only begotten Son to pay the price of redemption for all who would ever believe in Him.
The apostle John was staggered by the magnitude of God’s love and its implications. He stressed it so much and wrote about it so frequently that he is often called “the apostle of love.” This comment from 1 John 3:1 makes a fitting commentary on the central point of John 3:16: “See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God.” The language is as simple as the truth is profound: “How great”! John doesn’t employ a dozen adjectives, because all the superlatives in human language wouldn’t even come close to declaring the full truth. He simply calls our attention to the inexpressible wonder of God’s saving love. The God we worship loves to save.
The apostle Paul was captivated by the same truth:
Christ died for the ungodly. For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5:6–8)
The apostle Peter mentions “things into which angels long to look” (1 Peter 1:12). One of the pressing questions the angels surely must ponder is why God would pour out His love on fallen humanity. Certainly no higher authority than God compelled Him to love us.
And fallen humans alone are the recipients of divine mercy: “He does not give help to angels, but He gives help to the descendant of Abraham” (Hebrews 2:16). “God did not spare angels when they sinned, but cast them into hell and committed them to pits of darkness, reserved for judgment” (2 Peter 2:4).
Why would God choose to love finite, fallen, sinful human beings at the cost of His own Son’s life? Why didn’t God just write us all off as wretched sinners, make us the objects of His wrath, and display His glory in judgment against us? It is truly a mystery even angels might find bewildering.
Moreover, why is it that He lavishes us with the very riches of His goodness? Couldn’t God have displayed His mercy in a lesser way than giving His Son to die for us? Or having redeemed us and guaranteed us entry to heaven, couldn’t He have given us a lesser position? Yet He has made us joint heirs with Christ! He has elevated us to the spiritual heights. Indeed, He has already given us His very best. He has already bestowed the most priceless, eternal blessing in all the universe—His own beloved Son. Therefore, we can be absolutely confident that He will withhold no good thing from us. “He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?” (Romans 8:32).
Have you ever truly pondered the mystery of such great love? We’ll examine it more closely in the days ahead.
