Watch Those Words
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In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, But he who restrains his lips is wise.
-- Proverbs 10:19 (NJKV)
The enemy does roam around seeking whom he can devour. Unfortunately, we can inadvertently provide him with many opportunities. Though our Savior forgives our sins, we are still subject to the consequences of them. Religion often categorizes some sins as worse than others. Yet careless words can inflict as much harm as a gun.
The Bible repeatedly instructs us on the importance of words. With them we choose life or death (Proverbs 18:21). We may not be murderers. However, we can abort dreams and defeat people with careless chatter. Our words can edify others and bless them. But when we casually toss words around, we can kill confidence, crush hope, and wreak irreparable damage. Worst of all, we are oblivious when we do this.
Though easy to pinpoint the most grievous sins of our neighbors, we can remain ignorant of our own. Even when correction is warranted, it is an attitude of pride and haughtiness within our words that displeases our Lord. Instead, a kind tongue is more likely to receive consideration and correction. When we acknowledge the power that lies within our words, the more effectively we can use them.
When we starve the urge to interject needless banter, we will find that the tendency to gossip and criticize declines. We may be powerless to end wars or world hunger, but we can choose to be peacemakers (Matthew 5:8) who minimize discord in our homes, workplaces, and communities. Just as sin breeds strife, negligent words cause pain that takes years to heal. Our words should offer sincere kindness, compliments, and encouragement to everyone around us.
Our comfort with certain sins can stem from our upbringing, lifestyle, and other factors. Thankfully, Jesus broke sin’s power to condemn us to an eternal grave. Still, we should strive to shed sin’s chains with the knowledge and self-control available to each of us (2 Peter 1:5-8).
Allow the Holy Spirit to curtail unnecessary opinions and comments. Everything that we hear need not be repeated. Spread cheer, not gossip. Choose life over death. Pleasant words are sweet to our souls and health to our bones
(Proverbs 16:24).
A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.
The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness. Proverbs 15:1-2 NKJV
Questions for Reflection:
1. Remember a time when you said something you regret. What could you have done differently?
2. Identify circumstances, emotions, and people that trigger recklessness with your words. How can you change your response?
3. Do you use your words to bless those around you? Do you speak positively about yourself? Identify opportunities to do this more often.
