𝑯𝑶𝑾 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑳 𝑨𝑩𝑩𝑨’𝑺 𝑪𝑯𝑰𝑳𝑫 𝑫𝑬𝑨𝑳 𝑾𝑰𝑻𝑯 𝑰𝑻: 𝑯𝑬𝑨𝑹𝑻𝑩_𝑹_𝑬_𝑨_𝑲

It is no longer a doubted phrase in the public parlance that ‘last, na everybody go chop Breakfast’. Unevenly, it has always varied over time to Who and When. ‘A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.’ But what do you do when eventually whom you love, flip the coin and, —The transition.

    God’s plan for His sons and daughters is purpose-driven enough to get a fit for a Christian relationship. Yet, in certain instances, the Christian lover fails, stops loving, and breaks up, and one sheds enough tears to fill up the passage of the Red Sea that Moses divided. But God said he is my other half, the bone of my bones, the Sarah to my Abraham, my Joseph to birth a Jesus to this generation… Well, it just happened and it is Heartbreak – Breakfast.

    As expected, the heart slips out of love, but the yearning to pour out emotions to someone or shout it to the space heaves up your chest that you could resort to bizarre thought, but God gave me this person as His son/daughter to love, you would think. Unlike unbelievers, you would not dare to hop in the closest Bar, order the ‘highing’ drink, sip away your disappointment, or close your heart to love; for you at the moment, think men are scum and there are a thousand and more reasons to ‘Fear Women’.

    However, the Christian in a sinful world is not equal to the things of this world. He goes to God. She falls on God’s lap during her intimate moments with God. He rants ‘Why me? She sobs ‘God why?’ pouring all pains from the moment of loving. God’s arms remain open to the cries of the saints, for the Saints also cry. ‘Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not’ – Jeremiah 33:3. In the enquiring moment has the revelation of things the unbeliever does not know of. The believer’s mind and heart of love happen to be troubled by the unloving and disappointing nature of man. The man and the woman of God retrieve their solace in God’s love. He loves in return for the hatred of those He created on earth. Little wonder, God had given the caution sign that ‘…In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world’ John 16:33b. Hence, the hastiness to run to the comforter in the transient moment of Heartb_r_e_a_k.

    Either a Jesus’ girl or God’s son in the twenty-first century, has the fellowship of brethren to commune in Faith with the hope of a future of God-kind-of-family. It is now establishing enough with ‘not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.’ – Hebrews 10:25. The gathering of believers is more unpaid therapy in the similitude of booked sessions of Therapy.

‘We love him, because he first loved us’ – 1 John 4:19. What did God do when man broke the love for Him? Despite man’s consistent sins, repentance, redemption, sonship, etc. His love remains. He continually accepts His lost Loves into the kingdom as sons and daughters, especially as Lovers. When your Love life goes way south, the exodus is certainly en route to God’s arms not some green bottles at bars or brown bottles from lounges. Examine God’s condition at the instance of heartbreak to his communion with man in Eden which truncate the everlasting life. His resort wouldn’t have been in the sweetest wine from grapevine nor the end to loving man, He provides the restoration for man to love him still as ‘God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.’ – Romans 5:8.

    For a believer who keeps longing to be like Christ everyday and got a taste of the heartbreak God experienced at the inception of humanity, It is expected. Nevertheless, he or she keeps loving as his/her Father and Lover in heaven does.

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