Overcoming the January Blues
I’m writing over at Proverbs 31 Ministries today, and thought you might enjoy it too!
There’s something about January that gets me down. While others are setting New Year’s resolutions and goals for the months ahead, I tend to feel sorry for myself because some areas of my life aren’t where I hoped they’d be by now. My tendency is to give in to discouragement for what I didn’t accomplish rather than look ahead to what God has planned.
Maybe you’ve felt that way before. Perhaps you feel that way right now.
There’s a story in 1 Samuel that helps me when I feel stuck in discouragement.
The people of Israel had grown tired of being ruled by God. Disregarding the prophet Samuel’s warnings, they chose a king: the tall, dark and handsome Saul (1 Samuel 9:2). And while Saul depended on God for direction in his early days, he eventually took matters into his own hands, ignoring God’s commands and initiating his own. As a result, God took the anointing away from Saul and determined to give the kingship to someone else (1 Samuel 15:10-23).
Samuel was so discouraged over Saul’s failure that he “cried out to the LORD all that night” (1 Samuel 15:11). He was disappointed in Saul and maybe also sorry for himself.
Then one day, God said, “How long will you mourn for Saul, since I have rejected him as king over Israel?” (1 Samuel 16:1a, NIV).
I love Eugene Peterson’s paraphrase in the Message Bible: “So, how long are you going to mope over Saul?” (1 Samuel 16:1a).
God may be asking you and me the same question: How long will we mope because life hasn’t turned out like we thought it would?
I don’t mean to make little of any of the painful or discouraging situations in your life. I’ve had them too. But here’s what I know today: No matter how painful the circumstances of life may be, God never intends for us to get stuck in discouragement — to put down tent pegs and camp out there.
God went on to say to Samuel: “Fill your horn with oil and be on your way; I am sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king” (1 Samuel 16:1b-c, NIV).
At some point in our moping about, God may come to us, too, and say, It’s time to get up and get going. Your life is not over. The story has more chapters to be written! Let go of your discouragement to take hold of your next assignment.
God told Samuel, “I will show you what to do” (1 Samuel 16:3a, NIV). And “Samuel did what God told him” (1 Samuel 16:4).
That’s what God expects of me and of you today — to take the first step of obedience. He will take care of the rest.
Lord, I’ll admit, sometimes I mope when I’m discouraged. Today, I am deciding to grieve my losses in a healthy way but not linger in moping. When life doesn’t turn out like I hoped, I will see it as Your provision or protection. I trust in Your sovereignty for my life, even when I don’t understand. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Would you say you’re stuck in discouragement today? What might God have in store for you on the other side of this season?
If you’re willing to take the first step of faith to move forward, leave a comment saying, “I’m moving forward.”
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