You Might be Arguing with God and Not Know It

(Photo: Unsplash)

You Might Be Arguing With God and Not Know it

In the Old Testament book of Malachi, we read how the Israelites were arguing with God. Either they didn’t recognize it as arguing or they were just obstinate. Any of us–all of us–have been in both categories. With God and with other people.

That topic is at the root of what goes on in Malachi 3. Here’s a devotion selection from our book, God’s Intriguing Questions: 40 Old Testament Devotions Revealing God’s Nature. God’s question was “Will man rob God?” (Malachi 3:8).

In our daily lives this can apply in many ways. Do you have a child who whines? A friend who argues? A spouse who counters everything you say with something he thinks is better?

Those responses might be some of the strongest obstacles to good communication. They also block an intimate, trusting relationship. In your relationship with such a person, maybe you’ve consistently shown your love but they still argue and distrust your love.

That’s what is happening here in Malachi between God and his people, the Israelites. The book of Malachi is the last book in the Old Testament. After God speaks through Malachi, he will be silent for 400 years until Jesus arrives on the scene.

God is speaking through his prophet Malachi and says,

Return to me, and I will return to you, says the Lord of hosts. But you say, “How shall we return?” Will man rob God? Yet you are robbing me. But you say, “How have we robbed you?” In your tithes and contributions. (Malachi 3:7-8)

God has been trying to woo his people back to following him, but they are determined to argue and whine about everything.

Yet God consistently pursues them.

Here are some of their arguments found in Malachi 3:

  • How shall we return? (vs 7)
  • How have we robbed you? (vs 8)
  • How have we spoken against you? (vs 13)

These are empty defenses with no true desire to seek God. God’s people aren’t looking for truth. They really don’t want to hear God’s answers because then they would have to admit they should change. They just want to argue so they can continue in their disobedience.

Yet God still pursues them because his nature never changes and he is always desiring for his human creation to see how much he loves them. In Malachi 3:6, he says, “For I the Lord do not change; therefore you, O children of Jacob are not consumed.”

God is saying, “I’ve been seeking you all along because I haven’t changed my desire nor my plan. Even when I’ve given you consequences, my desire was to shock you out of your rebellion into obedience. And guess what. I’ve prepared the biggest shock waiting in the wings of the stage of time.”

In the beginning of Malachi 3, God lays out the plan: I’ll send my messenger (John the Baptist) who will prepare the way for the greatest appearance in history: my Son Jesus Christ, the Messiah, who is the ultimate example of my undying, never-changing love. I referred to the Savior and my plan all the way back in the Garden of Eden when I told the serpent he would someday be destroyed by the ‘offspring/Messiah Jesus’ (Genesis 3:14-16). Can you see my plan has never changed? If I changed, you would have been completely destroyed a very long time ago.

We can be secure and confident in our God who never changes or wavers from his plan. Jesus was predicted and God fulfills the prediction. God always keeps his promises.
  • What does God’s unchanging nature mean to you?
  • How have you argued with God and what do you want to do about it?
Mighty God, I praise you for your never-changing character which means your plans never change. Thank you for your unchanging love which gives me great security.
God’s Intriguing Questions: 40 Old Testament Devotions Revealing God’s Nature is available in print, Kindle, and audio.
Give

Subscribe to the Daybreak Devotions for Women

Be inspired by God's Word every day! Delivered to your inbox.


More from Kathy Collard Miller

  • featureImage

    Are You Discouraged Because You Haven't Arrived?

    "And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." -- Philippians 1:6.Someone has said, "A perfectionist is a person who takes great pains and passes them on to others."Sometimes we are the ones...

    3 min read
  • Shame Develops from Feeling Alone and Helpless

    Shame Develops from Feeling Alone and Helpless Matthew 26:50-54 tells us, Then they came up and laid hands on Jesus and seized him. And behold, one of those who were with Jesus stretched out his hand and drew his sword and struck the servant of the high priest and cut off his ear. Then Jesus said to him, “Put your sword back into its place. For all who take the sword will perish by the sword. Do you think that I cannot appeal to my Father, and he will at once send me more than twelve legions of angels? But how then should the Scriptures be fulfilled, that it must be so?” Jesus tells angry Peter to stop trying to protect what God doesn’t want protected. We see the theme of Hebrews 12:1-3: Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

    4 min readShameEmotionsHope
  • Book Drawing! “Turn the Page–Devotions to Help the Griever Hope” by Karisa Moore

    Karisa Moore’s heartfelt devotional offers solace and guidance to those navigating the turbulent waters of grief. Based on her personal journey through the loss of her son, this sixty-day journal is a sanctuary for anyone mourning a loved one. Each day’s entry provides a blend of reflections, questions, and practical activities designed to nurture healing and renew faith. Drawing deeply from Christian principles, Karisa encourages readers to embrace hope and find strength in their journey toward healing.

    5 min readHopeDevotional

Editor's Picks

avatar

Kathy Collard Miller

Kathy Collard Miller is an award-winning, bestselling author of over 60 books including "Anger Management—Jesus Style" and "No More Anger: Hope for an Out-of-Control Mom". She writes Christian Living books, women’s Bible studies and Bible commentaries. She blogs and writes articles on trusting God more, God’s sovereignty, marriage, parenting, and knowing God in truth. Along with being interviewed on The 700 Club, Kathy has been featured on hundreds of podcasts, radio and television programs. Kathy has spoken in over 30 US states and 9 foreign countries at women’s retreats, writing conferences, MOPS, and marriage seminars. She often writes and speaks with her husband, Larry who she married in 1970. They have two children and two grandchildren, and live in Boise, Idaho. Kathy is a founding member of AWSA (Advanced Writers and Speakers Association) and is active in various writers groups like IdaHope Christian Writers and Christian women’s ministries like NEWIM (Network of Evangelical Women In Ministry). Connect with her at: www.KathyCollardMiller.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/KathyCollardMillerAuthor Twitter: @KathyCMiller Pinterest/Kathyspeak YouTube.com/@kathycollardmiller13 Instagram: @kathycollardmiller Amazon author page: https://www.amazon.com/Kathy-Collard-Miller/e/B001KMI10S?

More from Kathy Collard Miller

  • featureImage

    Are You Discouraged Because You Haven't Arrived?

    "And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." -- Philippians 1:6.Someone has said, "A perfectionist is a person who takes great pains and passes them on to others."Sometimes we are the ones...

    3 min read
  • Shame Develops from Feeling Alone and Helpless

    Shame Develops from Feeling Alone and Helpless Matthew 26:50-54 tells us, Then they came up and laid hands on Jesus and seized him. And behold, one of those who were with Jesus stretched out his hand and drew his sword and struck the servant of the high priest and cut off his ear. Then Jesus said to him, “Put your sword back into its place. For all who take the sword will perish by the sword. Do you think that I cannot appeal to my Father, and he will at once send me more than twelve legions of angels? But how then should the Scriptures be fulfilled, that it must be so?” Jesus tells angry Peter to stop trying to protect what God doesn’t want protected. We see the theme of Hebrews 12:1-3: Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

    4 min readShameEmotionsHope
  • Book Drawing! “Turn the Page–Devotions to Help the Griever Hope” by Karisa Moore

    Karisa Moore’s heartfelt devotional offers solace and guidance to those navigating the turbulent waters of grief. Based on her personal journey through the loss of her son, this sixty-day journal is a sanctuary for anyone mourning a loved one. Each day’s entry provides a blend of reflections, questions, and practical activities designed to nurture healing and renew faith. Drawing deeply from Christian principles, Karisa encourages readers to embrace hope and find strength in their journey toward healing.

    5 min readHopeDevotional