God's timing rarely feels perfect or even good and I’m often frustrated with how slowly things change. I wish that God would rescue me as soon as I ask him, reveal his plans when I’m struggling, or give me a sign when I feel desperate. But often, no rescue, no revelation, no sign comes. I’m left won
We’ll all struggle in some form or fashion. No one is immune to suffering. But rather than viewing pain as a burden to bear, what if we considered it a gift for growing? What if we saw every trial as training? When we see our children, grandchildren, spouse or friends struggling, rather than trying to fix their problems, what if we prayed that God would use the difficult circumstance to make them stronger, wiser, and more mature in Christ?
As a trauma survivor, I’ve often felt that love and acceptance needed to be earned through constant performance. Even now, as a recovering codependent, I still battle with this. However, I…
“I didn’t mean to hurt you,” says tearful Cheater. Notice what is missing in such a statement from a Cheater: -No mention of what they did being wrong. -No hint that they would not do it, again. -No remorse for your pain. They are trying to manage their own conscience and protect their image with … Continue reading "“I didn’t mean to hurt you” Cheater Line"
“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose”(Romans 8:28). There are many times when we question the presence of Go…
I am happy to have a guest post! This is from my new friend, Tony Martin who is a pilgrim, sojourner, encourager, and coach. If you or your teen needs some direction, consider reaching out to Tony. He is not local but can work with you or your teen through video. He can be reached at www.youcanhavehope.com. Pain is a gift. Isn’t that just about the most counterintuitive thing you’ve ever heard? I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately because there are lots of hurting folks out there. Mayb…
Mike Genung
by Mike Genung On July 5 of this year, my wife’s 80 year old father passed away from congestive heart failure. Just six weeks later, Michelle’s Mom also passed away, hitting our family with a second wave of grief. As I’ve walked through the grieving Read More