SIN: Divorce is a sin
Divorce is a sin By Babatope Babalobi babalobi@yahoo.com +234 80 35 897435 Save the World Christian Ministry App Click here to join our WhatsApp Prayer Group Mark 10 vs. 12 And if a woman shall…
Divorce is a sin By Babatope Babalobi babalobi@yahoo.com +234 80 35 897435 Save the World Christian Ministry App Click here to join our WhatsApp Prayer Group Mark 10 vs. 12 And if a woman shall…
“Adultery or fornication, committed after a contract, being detected before marriage, giveth just occasion to the innocent party to dissolve that contract. In the case of adultery after marriage, it is lawful for the innocent party to sue out a divorce, and after the divorce to marry another, as if the offending party were dead.” … Continue reading "Major Support for Divorce–WCF 1646"
Jesus answered the Pharisees’ question about marriage. He said that Moses’ regulations allowing divorce was not God’s original intention. Jesus said that, “What God has joined together, let no one separate.” In apparently not allowing divorce, Jesus had thrown his disciples into quite some confusion. Didn’t Jesus allow any exceptions in which divorce was permitted? Throughout this whole discussion on marriage and divorce, it’s interesting to see how Jesus was especially concerned to protect and uplift women. In a culture that sought easy divorce, it was the women and the children who were the prime victims. They were the ones whom Jesus was protecting.
Human relationships have always been one of the most difficult things for people to navigate. And it was like that in in Jesus’ time as well. The Pharisees had a question for Jesus about marriage and divorce. To understand what Jesus said here and in subsequent verses, you have to first understand the context. First, notice that this took place in “the region of Judaea and across the Jordan.” This is the region in which not too long ago, John the Baptist had been arrested and killed over what he had to say about marriage, adultery, and divorce. And Herod’s adulterous marriage was still a hot topic of conversation.
“We just drifted apart,” says Cheater. This is probably one of the lamer excuses a Cheater might give for their behavior. Like ships on the ocean of life, this metaphor suggests the tides of time simply separated the couple. In other words, the excuse serves to blame external circumstances. Is it possible to “drift apart” … Continue reading "Cheater-Speak: “We drifted apart.”"
It only takes one to end the marriage. So often this fact is missed in the evangelical church. They teach as if both have a say in the marriage ending. That is simply not always the case. Many have experienced the double trauma of being cheated on and then discarded by the cheater. Without knowing … Continue reading "Can be one’s sole decision."
Divorce is a difficult decision for any couple to make, but what if you’re pregnant? That’s a whole new level of complication. Many people wonder if it’s even possible to get divorced while pregnant. Understanding Your State’s Divorce Laws Regarding Pregnancy It’s essential to consult with a family law attorney who is well-versed in …
“If you made a list of reasons why any couple got married and another list of the reasons for their divorce, you’d have a hell of a lot of overlapping.” Mignon McLaughlin Divorce is a life-changing event that can bring about a wide range of emotions in anyone. However, for women going through divorce, the …
Afraid to Get Divorced: The Top Fears of Divorce Divorce is not child’s play; it involves a lot of emotional, physical, and financial challenges that can take a toll on both parties involved. When we enter into marriage, we do so with the intention of spending the rest of our lives with our partners. However, …
In California, the concept of alimony has evolved over time through legislative changes and court interpretations. On September 5, 1969, Governor Ronald Reagan signed California’s new and revolutionary Family Law Act into law. Although it failed to establish the Family Court that the Commission intended, the Family Law Act did make the Commission’s no-fault divorce …
Did you know that in California, when marriages end in less than ten years, the courts typically determine the duration of spousal support as roughly 50% of the marriage length? Alimony is the legal term where, during or after divorce proceedings, a person will provide financial support to their spouse, but how is alimony calculated …
Faith to overcome divorce in marriage is the focus of this post. The rate of divorce is on the increase today even among Christians. Even Christian couples who are not divorced are living as enemies in their homes. The homes, families and marriages are in disarray because they have allowed the devil to plant different […]
Marriage is not a bed of roses, but it sure as heck shouldn’t be a bed of thorns, either. Ups and downs are not unusual in marriages and that’s why we have marriage counselors, therapists, and blogs like the one you’re currently reading to help people navigate the difficult seasons of marriage. However, unfortunately, sometimes …
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. -2 Timothy 1:7, KJV I am deeply troubled by how acceptable it is within Christian leadership to use fear about divorce against faithful spouses. If you are like me, you have heard the terrifying … Continue reading "PSA: Your second marriage is not doomed!"
Divorce rate in Christian marriages is increasing on a regular basis. I believe we should be concerned about this negative trend as Christians, Christian ministries and Christian marriage counselors. Watch The Prostitute movie today to see how a young man helped his marriage and home to crush bitterness and unforgiveness. Watch it below: Divorce […]
Dear DM, It was a Godsend to come across your blog after as the evangelical Christian community’s biased view of divorce versus adultery is so prevalent, harsh, and unBiblical. Anyway, my current personal situation with marital infidelity is primarily related to decades of unrepentant porn use by my husband that has escalated over the years … Continue reading "Dear DM, What about porn use?"
Marriage is a very unique institution. Even though this God-ordained institution has stood fast through generations, certain dynamics around it have been largely subject to societal dictates and trends. One such is divorce. Divorce rates have peaked over time, and from a pattern of men mostly initiating divorce, the dynamics have shifted. It is said …
“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” -Isaiah 43:18-19a, NIV Sometimes the marriage is not fixable, and it comes time to focus on a new thing. A cheater who refuses to repent makes a marriage not fixable. It would be unwise to reinvest in a … Continue reading "Time for “new thing”"
Divorce is one of the toughest challenges any woman can face. And oh, it changes you. In ways you never imagined. Going from being a wife to being single again is not just a legal process; it’s an emotional journey. And it’s different for everyone. But one thing is certain – divorce changes you. Let’s …
Things That Happen When Couples Stop Sleeping With Each Other