Divorce is a difficult decision for any couple to make, but what if you’re pregnant? That’s a whole new level of complication. Many people wonder if it’s even possible to get divorced while pregnant. Understanding Your State’s Divorce Laws Regarding Pregnancy It’s essential to consult with a family law attorney who is well-versed in …
“If you made a list of reasons why any couple got married and another list of the reasons for their divorce, you’d have a hell of a lot of overlapping.” Mignon McLaughlin Divorce is a life-changing event that can bring about a wide range of emotions in anyone. However, for women going through divorce, the …
Afraid to Get Divorced: The Top Fears of Divorce Divorce is not child’s play; it involves a lot of emotional, physical, and financial challenges that can take a toll on both parties involved. When we enter into marriage, we do so with the intention of spending the rest of our lives with our partners. However, …
In California, the concept of alimony has evolved over time through legislative changes and court interpretations. On September 5, 1969, Governor Ronald Reagan signed California’s new and revolutionary Family Law Act into law. Although it failed to establish the Family Court that the Commission intended, the Family Law Act did make the Commission’s no-fault divorce …
Did you know that in California, when marriages end in less than ten years, the courts typically determine the duration of spousal support as roughly 50% of the marriage length? Alimony is the legal term where, during or after divorce proceedings, a person will provide financial support to their spouse, but how is alimony calculated …
Faith to overcome divorce in marriage is the focus of this post. The rate of divorce is on the increase today even among Christians. Even Christian couples who are not divorced are living as enemies in their homes. The homes, families and marriages are in disarray because they have allowed the devil to plant different […]
Marriage is not a bed of roses, but it sure as heck shouldn’t be a bed of thorns, either. Ups and downs are not unusual in marriages and that’s why we have marriage counselors, therapists, and blogs like the one you’re currently reading to help people navigate the difficult seasons of marriage. However, unfortunately, sometimes …
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. -2 Timothy 1:7, KJV I am deeply troubled by how acceptable it is within Christian leadership to use fear about divorce against faithful spouses. If you are like me, you have heard the terrifying … Continue reading "PSA: Your second marriage is not doomed!"
Divorce rate in Christian marriages is increasing on a regular basis. I believe we should be concerned about this negative trend as Christians, Christian ministries and Christian marriage counselors. Watch The Prostitute movie today to see how a young man helped his marriage and home to crush bitterness and unforgiveness. Watch it below: Divorce […]
Dear DM, It was a Godsend to come across your blog after as the evangelical Christian community’s biased view of divorce versus adultery is so prevalent, harsh, and unBiblical. Anyway, my current personal situation with marital infidelity is primarily related to decades of unrepentant porn use by my husband that has escalated over the years … Continue reading "Dear DM, What about porn use?"
Marriage is a very unique institution. Even though this God-ordained institution has stood fast through generations, certain dynamics around it have been largely subject to societal dictates and trends. One such is divorce. Divorce rates have peaked over time, and from a pattern of men mostly initiating divorce, the dynamics have shifted. It is said …
“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” -Isaiah 43:18-19a, NIV Sometimes the marriage is not fixable, and it comes time to focus on a new thing. A cheater who refuses to repent makes a marriage not fixable. It would be unwise to reinvest in a … Continue reading "Time for “new thing”"
Divorce is one of the toughest challenges any woman can face. And oh, it changes you. In ways you never imagined. Going from being a wife to being single again is not just a legal process; it’s an emotional journey. And it’s different for everyone. But one thing is certain – divorce changes you. Let’s …
Things That Happen When Couples Stop Sleeping With Each Other
Dear DM, Thank you for your ministry to survivors of infidelity abuse. My former wife of 25 years abandoned me and our minor son back in 2019. Although she denied having an extra-marital affair, I cannot seriously believe she would have left her son unless she had crossed a line of no return. That line … Continue reading "Dear DM, Is her abandonment unfaithfulness?"
Hannah
You find yourself sitting alone in your quiet house, surrounded by memories of better times. The absence of your partner is heavy, like a constant ache in your chest. Every nook and cranny of your home feels empty without them. So, you turn to books for a distraction, diving into...
More often than not, an extramarital affair isn’t something we sign up for; it’s something we often stumble into, blinded by the flares of passion or the warmth of connection. Whether you found yourself dating a married man or simply fell for someone who turned out to be already taken, what happens when a married …
While I am thankful for the help of some Christian resources in my dark season, I discovered most had an agenda apart from freely presenting the options. Most Christian resources–in my experience–are focused upon “saving the marriage.” This goal is pursued at the unacknowledged cost of the faithful spouse’s well-being. For these authors and pastors, … Continue reading "Contrast to the usual “Christian” resources"
By Elizabeth Prata In tweeting the about transgenderism, an angry person – obviously not a believer – challenged me with this- you’re the reason baptists churchs are removing R…
Frank Walker
Posted by: Frank Walker LMFT | February 7, 2024 Soften Your Hard Heart this Valentine’s Day It’s that time of year again. This hardness of our hearts has caused us to have generations of children divorce where they do not know the true Biblical love of a man for a woman. Check out all his blogposts at walkertherapy.wordpress.com and check his YouTube channel “A Marriage Minute” @ Frank Walker LMFT http//youtube.com/c/FrankWalkerLMFT Frank has written several books that are available @ http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker Frank is an artist with 31 years of teaching experience.