Does it scare you to tell the truth? Face it and let it out
John 8:32:
"Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
Do you find yourself holding onto something, something you are not saying? Maybe it is a little lie, one that could potentially hurt those around you. Or perhaps it is a secret, a part of your life that you are not ready to reveal due to feelings of shame, like being without a job, leading you to weave a web of white lies. Whatever it is, you may be carrying a burden of guilt and anxiety. You desperately want to tell the truth but you are paralyzed by fear.
It is natural to be scared, to worry about the consequences if you tell the truth.
When you open up about something you have been hiding, you worry about how others will see you. For instance, admitting a mistake at work might make you anxious about being perceived as incompetent.
You might also hesitate to tell the truth because you are afraid it could hurt or disappoint someone close to you. Shame may also be another powerful force that keeps you from being honest. Maybe you lost your job, and you are struggling to find a new one. Admitting this truth might make you feel embarrassed or less worthy. It is challenging to expose vulnerabilities, especially when societal expectations can make us feel like we need to have it all together.
The fear of being misunderstood is also a significant barrier. Sometimes, we avoid sharing the truth because we worry that others will not see the full picture. For example, if you have been struggling with a personal issue, like anxiety, you might be hesitant to open up out of concern that people will view you differently without understanding the complexities.
But here is the thing: carrying these unspoken truths can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being.
It is like a knot in your stomach that tightens with each passing day, causing stress and anxiety. The longer you keep these truths hidden, the more they fester and grow, affecting not only your peace of mind but also your relationships with others.
The people close to you may sense that something is amiss, even if they cannot pinpoint what it is. Your hidden truths create an invisible barrier, hindering genuine connection. You may also find yourself becoming more guarded or defensive, unintentionally pushing people away.
Facing the truth may be intimidating, but it is a crucial step towards personal growth and genuine connections.
Acknowledging your fears and finding the courage to be honest can be liberating. It is about letting go of the heavy burden you have been carrying and allowing yourself the freedom to be authentic.
Like you, Peter, one of Jesus' disciples, faced a moment of truth that was intimidating and challenging. When confronted about his association with Jesus during the events leading to the crucifixion, Peter initially denied any connection out of fear. This denial was his attempt to avoid potential consequences and judgment.
However, the turning point for Peter came when he acknowledged his fear and found the courage to be honest. In a powerful moment of self-realization, he faced the truth and admitted his association with Jesus, even if it meant facing criticism and potential danger. This act of honesty was liberating for Peter, as it marked his acceptance of the truth and a willingness to embrace authenticity.
So, ask yourself: Does it scare you to tell the truth? It is okay if it does.
But consider this as an invitation to face those fears, to let go of the weight you have been carrying, and to embrace the possibility of a more authentic and fulfilling life.
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