The Problem with Pride
-- Proverbs 16:18 (NKJV)
Pride is deceptive. It inflates egos, is self-serving, and has no regard for other people. Pride excuses immoral behavior and perpetuates a lie of self-reliance. No wonder there are over a hundred scriptures that caution us against the dangers of pride.
Unfortunately, pride is prevalent in our government, schools, and even churches. It breeds strife in the workplace. Pride among family members fuels arguments and strains relationships. There are very few places where it can’t be found.
Pride stems from an inward fixation on what we accomplish, our status, our gains, and all manner of privilege that is far removed from what God values. Pride is abrasive, loud, and inconsiderate. It pits people against each other. Pride rebels against loving others because it is self-consumed. God’s Word warns us against pride because it is deadly.
In contrast, a humble heart is an open heart—willing to serve, give, listen, and accept correction.
God desires nothing less than an amazing life for each of us. But we will never experience joy and fulfill our purpose if we believe we can prosper without Him. When we exhaust ourselves to obtain those things associated with success, we must continually work to maintain them.
Yet when God exalts us, there is no angst associated with His blessings. When we recognize that apart from God we can do nothing, it takes the pressure off. God wants us to rest in (and trust) that He cares for us and will provide according to His will.
Humility allows us to submit ourselves before the Lord, desiring His will above our own. When we are humble, we realize that our lives are not about us but instead flourish when we abide in God’s presence, prioritize His will, and walk in obedience.
Be humble. Be kind. And whatever your plight, God will lift you up.
By humility and the fear of the Lord Are riches and honor and life.
-- Proverbs 22:4 (NKJV)
Questions for Reflection:
1. Are there any areas in your life that you have allowed pride to take root?
2. Recall a time when pride strained a relationship.
