
Forgiving Myself for Trying to Save My Marriage
"I'm glad you're working on forgiving your ex-husband," he began. "But have you considered forgiving yourself?"
Most of us writers, though, have room to grow and feel a need to continue to learn about the art and craft of writing. This is especially true if we're writing in a genre that's new to us. Being a "Renaissance woman," I write in several different genres, but I've found that writing a divorce and recovery memoir is perhaps the most difficult of all. I may never feel I've studied it enough, but I've made a good start. Here are the books recommended by my memoir mentor I'm currently chewing on:
The Art of Memoir by Mary Karr, The Plot Whisperer by Martha Alderson, The Writer’s Journey by Christopher Vogler, Super Structure by James Scott Bell, Wired for Story by Lisa Cron. and The 90-Day Novel by Alan Watt. I’ve studied them diligently, highlighting passages and tagging pages. I learned from Bell that I’m a pantster and I need to be more of a plotter. Inspired by The Plot Whisperer, I’ve created a timeline of sticky notes on the wall of my office, making sure I have a “Care Package” in the first scene and that I “Pet the Dog” in a later one as Bell suggests. All have proved of value to me.I may take the time to say more about these books in future posts.Yours for better writing,
Linda
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"I'm glad you're working on forgiving your ex-husband," he began. "But have you considered forgiving yourself?"
"No one teaches us how to support a friend in peril. Whether it’s after a divorce, a miscarriage, a job loss, or the death of a child, people mean well, but the wrong words can come burbling...
“It was my own personal 9/11. A beautiful day, not a cloud in the sky, birds chirping, children playing—when out of nowhere disaster struck with six words uttered by my husband: “I...
An email I recently received: Hi. My name is Sara. I'm in a lot of emotional and physical pain. My story is a warning—I don't want other women to go through the same kind of abuse I'm now...