Forgive Not and Root Rot
Gardening is one hobby that nurtures and inspires me. It has also taught me a few things that apply to people as well. I quickly learned the importance of avoiding root rot.
Root rot occurs in potted plants when the soil doesn’t adequately drain or the plant has been overwatered. This preventable condition quickly leads to the demise of blooms. An oversaturation of the roots weakens the plant and causes decay. Though necessary to live, too much water deprives the roots of oxygen. Water should pass through the roots but never settle there.
Likewise, unforgiveness quickens our demise. When we remain angry, we inadvertently cause our own decline as rage or bitterness lingers. Refusing to forgive fosters spiritual and mental decay. A holy anger that prompts us to right a wrong or act on the behalf of others is justified. However, feelings of ill will should never persist.
Root rot kills silently. Its effects aren’t visible above the surface until the plant is dying. When we choose not to forgive, we also rot behind a façade of loving others. Too often, the effects are not recognizable until the damage is done.
When we forgive not, we can subject ourselves to physical ailments. Our frustration with people may manifest through headaches, palpitations, restlessness, and muscle spasms. The varied illnesses some of us experience are rooted in stress that stems from grudges with family, friends, and coworkers. We can convince ourselves that we have forgiven someone yet fail to truly let go of an offense.
We are commanded to forgive so that we can live abundantly and free from the bondage of sin. This isn’t possible when we refuse to forgive. Our indignation robs us of peace, hope, and joy just as excessive water prevents plant roots from absorbing the nutrients vital to thrive.
Spiritual maturity requires us to dismiss our feelings and forgive others out of obedience to God. If we keep this in mind, it becomes easier to do. We don’t deserve the grace Jesus died to give us, yet we gratefully receive it. Choose to live generously, liberated, and merciful to others.
Forgive quickly and flourish.
Questions for Reflection:
1. Is there anyone you need to forgive? Ask God to help you despite your feelings.
2. Meditate on three things God has forgiven you recently. Express gratitude by showing mercy to others.
