10 Signs Men Who Are Passionate About Their Marriage Will Always Show - Olubunmi Mabel
Signs Men Who Are Passionate About Their Marriage Will Always Show
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J.W. Phillips
How a Husband Becomes a Priest
The magnificence of marriage, as set forth in the last verses of Ephesians 5, is portrayed with inspired insights into the husband’s role. No Hallmark card comes anywhere close!We learn in these verses that the husband is to be a leader, a lover, a giver, a savior, a sanctifier, and...
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Cheaters are NOT the victims. - Divorce Minister
Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! -I Corinthians 6:15, NIV Cheater, you are the aggressor, not the victim, here! For whatever reasons, people are often taken in by the pity story a caught cheater spins … Continue reading "Cheaters are NOT the victims."
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Cheater-Speak: "What happened?" - Divorce Minister
“What happened to us?” asks Cheater. “You cheated, and so, we divorced. It’s pretty simple,” says Faithful Spouse. Cheaters asking this question are not asking for information. They are attempting to shift blame onto you, faithful spouse. Your current marriage ending narrative makes them look bad; so, they are attempting to manipulate you into accepting … Continue reading "Cheater-Speak: “What happened?”"
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The Problem is not a problem to them. - Divorce Minister
When Cheaters go to pastoral counseling with their victims, they may have no interest in actually dealing with The Problem. They have successfully convinced themselves that the cheating was caused by circumstances outside of themselves. Cheaters might even blame their spouse for the cheating (see “The Shared Responsibility Lie“). These sessions are doomed. The cheating … Continue reading "The Problem is not a problem to them."
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7 Signs A Married Man Is Drifting Away From His Wife - Olubunmi Mabel
Signs A Married Man Is Drifting Away From His Wife
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Saying does not make it so. - Divorce Minister
“I’m being faithful to God,” says Cheater. “It sounds like you believe that [which is a complete lie],” replies Faithful Spouse. Saying does not make it so! Cheaters say all sorts of things. You could have them dead to rights, and they will bust out this gem (see above). To them, their lies need not … Continue reading "Saying does not make it so."
1 min readPetrina Ferguson
Refuse To Be The Forever Girlfriend!
Especially, refuse to be a forever girlfriend if you want to be married. Have you ever met women who desire to get married but remain men’s girlfriends chronically, because their boyfriends w…
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Cheater-Speak: "How did you find out?" - Divorce Minister
“How did you find out?” says incredulous, busted Cheater (“Shoot! He DID find out. I gotta figure out how to shut down that channel of information!”) When a cheater gets busted and their first impulse is to learn how you discovered them, you know that cheater is the opposite of repentant. Such is pride speaking–namely, … Continue reading "Cheater-Speak: “How did you find out?”"
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Mike Genung
Colonel Nails, and the Power of a Wife
It’s 2005 and a new guy has walked into our men’s group for recovery from porn/sex addiction in Colorado Springs. He’s dressed in army fatigues and boots. His hair is crew cut, short, salt and peppered. Posture is ramrod straight. His eyes are intense, with Read More
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12 Red Flags in a marriage: Are You in a Loveless, Unhappy Marriage - Christian Personal Development
Is your marriage feeling more like a chore than a partnership? Discover these 12 red flags in a marriage. These are warning signs of a loveless, unhappy marriage. Learn how to prioritize your well-being. Let’s start in earnest. Please share this post with your friends on social media. Related: Infidelity in marriage: What to do […]
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Busy Marriage? Here Are 11 Proven Ways To Keep The Romance Alive - Olubunmi Mabel
So, whether you’re dealing with a screaming toddler, a demanding boss, or just trying to remember if you fed the dog, these tips will help you and your partner stay connected, no matter how hectic life gets. Think and talk about the good times Sometimes, you both can go days, weeks, or even months without doing anything special or romantic together because of how choked up your life is. Busyness can attempt to squeeze the fun out of your life, and while marriage may add a whole new layer of busyness, it also brings along something worth fighting for—love, connection, and those little sparks that made you fall for each other in the first place.
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Value Added Worldly Wisdom - Divorce Minister
Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ. -Colossians 2:8, NLT “… for better or worse… rich or poor…” Cheaters do not allow the traditional wedding vows to touch their hearts. They come at marriage … Continue reading "Value Added Worldly Wisdom"
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If Your Husband Never Says Sorry: 6 Things It Means - Olubunmi Mabel
Why does he find it so hard to say “Sorry”? I can bet a million and one women are asking this question and wondering if their case is unique. Well, firstly, it isn’t. Secondly, the reason your husband never says sorry is not always ominous. Sometimes, it’s just personality or conditioning. But let’s not get …
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The Need for a Playmate
It is quite common for marriages to succumb to a joyless routine, to a hum-drum existence that offers little excitement. Eventually, both marriage partners begin to wonder why their love isn’t as strong as it used to be.The real reason for this isn’t exactly a mystery. It is attributable to...
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11 Expert-Proven Ways to Make Your Husband Fall In Love with You All Over Again - Olubunmi Mabel
Can you feel you and your husband drifting apart, or is he not as loving as he used to be? I want to assure you that it’s not an impossible situation; you can make your husband fall in love with you all over again. Sometimes, marriages go through different seasons for one reason or another; …
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If everyone is focused on your "shortcomings"... - Divorce Minister
If everyone is focused on your “shortcomings,” then they aren’t bothering the Cheater. This is a classic move by Cheaters. They convince the pastor or other helper to focus upon the faithful spouse and their so called “shortcomings.” The faithful spouse takes the hit as they might be terrified of the marriage ending. It is … Continue reading "If everyone is focused on your “shortcomings”…"
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8 Things Every Woman Wants From Her Husband But Doesn't Get - Olubunmi Mabel
If you are yet to be married, this might seem far-fetched, but sometimes, a married woman wants things from her husband but doesn’t get it. As sad as this sounds, it’s a possibility in a marriage and is not often due to an uncaring husband. In some cases, the husband may not know he is …
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End their centrality. Make them a footnote. - Divorce Minister
So the Lord blessed Job in the second half of his life even more than in the beginning. -Job 42:12a, NLT Faithful Spouses, we have a choice: Do we keep on allowing the cheater to be the central player in our life story or do we go out and take command of our story forging decisions … Continue reading "End their centrality. Make them a footnote."
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When He “Converts” To Be With You
In this post, I’m going to talk about religious “conversion” that takes place when someone changes or attempts to change their religious belief system in order to date or marry so…
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