Laura Moseley
While I am familiar with the concept, but never knew the term until recently...it is a laughable, yet accurate term. I adore hybrid words! According to Urban
Ever have your Cheater offer to end the affair on their own? I mean that they offer to tell the Affair Partner privately–without you–that it is over. That offer is not worth much. You are taking the word of a liar who has demonstrated a willingness and ability to carry on a double-life. “Receipts” are … Continue reading "Gonna end it on own, really?!"
But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God. -John 3:21, NIV Graphic pictures of compromising behavior seems to be almost needed to convince some pastors and Christians that a spouse is violating their … Continue reading "HUNDREDS of texts is NOT innocent!"
Divorce is a difficult decision for any couple to make, but what if you’re pregnant? That’s a whole new level of complication. Many people wonder if it’s even possible to get divorced while pregnant. Understanding Your State’s Divorce Laws Regarding Pregnancy It’s essential to consult with a family law attorney who is well-versed in …
Cheater apologists are quick to point at the flaws in the marriage and blame the faithful spouse “for their part.” This is foolishness parading as wisdom. Sometimes metaphors help us understand how foolish some things actually are: The marriage is a house. This house has needed updates. For example, it needs new windows, a fresh … Continue reading "Bigger than just “squeaky floors”"
If he can’t let you out of his sight for just a few hours without bombarding you with calls and texts to know what you are doing and who you are with, you may just be married to an insecure man. He compares himself to other men I know there is this trend among young people to declare that they are only focused on themselves and no one else. This is especially true if he consistently speaks of how much more handsome, muscular, masculine, successful, and intelligent these other men seem compared to him.
Faithful Spouse: Who is he then? Cheater: A friend. Can’t I have friends? This is a common cheater ploy. They attempt to minimize the nature of their relationship with the affair partner. He (or she) is presented as “a friend.” Then they might go on the offensive accusing the faithful spouse of attempting to cut … Continue reading "Cheater-Speak: “He’s a friend.”"
One of the ways to build transparency and trust in a relationship is by sharing each other’s past experiences. If I share my past with you as my boo, my lover, my best friend, you should feel honored and grateful that I trust you enough to let you in. Right? It doesn’t end there, though. …
An emotional affair? How can you tell? When does it cross the line? Cheaters are infamous for admitting to an emotional affair before or instead of a physical affair. Because pastors and others are poor at holding them accountable for their own actions, this opens the door for them to blame–essentially–the faithful spouse for such … Continue reading "Emotional Affair? When does it cross the line?"
I know there’s more to marriage than just sex, but hello, it’s still an important aspect of a healthy relationship. Yes, respect, mutual love, friendship, communication, and all those things matter a lot too. But physical intimacy is the glue that keeps the bond strong between a married couple. It’s a way to connect and …
''My Husband Never Initiates Intimacy''
Sheryl H. Boldt
We could ask God to help us not be so thin-skinned and remind us to count to ten or, better yet, recite 1 Corinthians 13:5 (in the Amplified Bible) to give us space before we say anything we regret.
….but the angel said, “Don’t be alarmed. You are looking for Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He isn’t here! He is risen from the dead! Look, this is where they laid his body.” -Mark 16:6, NLT Resurrection is unexpected. It is not how things normally go. This is in part why Jesus coming back from … Continue reading "Marriage resurrection is a miracle, not normal outcome."
How To Be Happy In An Unhappy Marriage
What It Means When Your Husband Lies To You
The idea of weddings and marriage is surely exciting to a lot of people, no doubt. The thought of walking down the aisle with the one you love into a wonderful happily ever after and starting a home with them can take you to cloud 9. However, there are times when thoughts of getting married …
Frank Walker
Married people are happier than single adults: survey April Rubin Money can’t buy happiness, the old adage says. But maybe combining it with marriage can help. Why it matters: …
Everyone wants to love and be loved, and that’s why we desire a partner with whom to share our lives. However, sometimes, we can become so dependent on our partner that it becomes unhealthy, and that is known as co-dependency. What is Co-Dependency? Co-dependency is like always having your phone on low battery and your …
43 Then Jesus shouted, “Lazarus, come out!” 44 And the dead man came out, his hands and feet bound in graveclothes, his face wrapped in a headcloth. Jesus told them, “Unwrap him and let him go!” John 11:43-44, NLT Marital infidelity kills marriages. It does this by striking the heart of this covenant relationship–namely, fidelity. Without such fidelity, trust is … Continue reading "A resurrection, NOT a remodel!"
Faith to overcome divorce in marriage is the focus of this post. The rate of divorce is on the increase today even among Christians. Even Christian couples who are not divorced are living as enemies in their homes. The homes, families and marriages are in disarray because they have allowed the devil to plant different […]